Creating Balance with Dark and Light Feminine Energy
- Angelena Rose
- Mar 7, 2024
- 2 min read
Feminine energy lies on a spectrum from dark to light. Creating balance between both our dark femininity and our light femininity is a very important part of becoming our true, authentic selves with a strong connection with our divine feminine.
We have talked about our dark feminine side in a prior blog post, but did not discuss the limits of dark femininity. Having an unhealthy boundary with our own feminine power in both our light and dark feminine sides is not any better than not embracing our femininity at all.
As mentioned in the prior blog, dark femininity unleashes traits such as
confidence
strength
power
and, sensuality
These traits are many times withheld because of societal expectations, but also for a fear that we could take it too far.
Dark femininity encompasses such a magnetic power, that too much, or taken too far, our unbalanced use of our dark feminine energy can hurt others and/ or hurt ourselves. A general example of an unhealthy relationship with our dark feminine side may be, using and abusing our power of confidence to degrade or put down others. A balance with this feminine power, would be knowing the limits of confidence and using it to be the best, and healthiest version of ourselves, while uplifting others and supporting them in unleashing their confidence.
Light feminine energy is on the other end of the energy spectrum. Light feminine energy encompasses many of the traditional traits of “femininity” and many others. Light feminine traits include..
patience
elegance
softness
quietness
forgiveness
nurturing
innocence
Our light feminine energy is commonly more accepted by society. Light feminine energy is a key part of connecting authentically with your divine feminine power. Although, just as with our dark feminine energy, one must practice the art of balance on the energy spectrum. Having an unhealthy relationship with our light feminine power, can cause one to lose their voice, they may forgive to far; and hurt themselves, they may not set boundaries, or may stay quiet in times when assertiveness is necessary for their wellbeing.
Our light feminine energy presents a patient, playful, nurturing side all the while, our dark feminine energy will help us to set our limits and boundaries and bring out our confidence.